The Power Of Appreciation
February 12, 2013
The most powerful form of non-verbal attraction is APPRECIATION. But why? This week in Success Tips, we cover the Power of Appreciation, and how you can make it work for you.
The universal law is simple: What you appreciate APPRECIATES you. What you depreciate DEPRECIATES you.
Ever notice that those that you like and admire usually like you back -- for some reason? And those that you do not get along with "cause" you to not like them? The circle of anger between each other just grows and gets bigger. This is a very easy-to-understand universal law. What you focus on expands. Therefore, if you are focusing on how much you DISLIKE someone, that dislike will simply EXPAND around you, causing all sorts of byproducts back onto you that you don't want. It is said that to hate someone simply hurts the hater. This is always the case. But what about the next level, the opposite of this - the APPRECIATION cycle?
So let's look at this closer. The theory is easy to understand. What you are appreciating right now is appreciating you and being attracted to you, and the two shall soon meet (if they have not already). While the hatred of something simply expands back onto the hater, the opposite is everything you have attracted into your life, you have achieved by APPRECIATION.
I have asked scholars in Universal Law -- who are far more intelligent that myself -- how it is that this works. While they look at me with a "duh" look on their face, they reel off something about spiritual vibration as an attractant ... leaving me utterly confused. It just seems to me that it works, so I don't generally worry about HOW it works, just that it does. It's the old "I do not need to know how a clock runs in order to reap the benefits of the clock" theory.
The way the scholars explain it is similar to the "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear" thing. They say it has to do with your being at a vibrational level with the person/situation/thing that you desire and since the two are within a very close vibrational frequency, a match is made and you are brought together through circumstances that may seem improbable before it actually occurs in form. I don't know if this is true, but I have watched this happen repeatedly for years.
This is understandable, since I subscribe to "We become what we think about most" theory of achievement. This is fairly close to the appreciation thing. My belief has always been that thinking about something (having a written goal) will cause you subconsciously to move in a direction toward that goal. We are the reason for our achievement, and it all starts within us.
Some life coaches will tell you to write things down as goals and look at them every day. I would also say that is the most important thing to achieve a goal. But the actual achievement of the goal, according to some scholars, is the result of appreciating the goal and attracting that thing/person/situation by maintaining a focus (vibration) on it. Interesting.
WORTH A TRY?
Is this is a tip that you can use regularly to help with relationships, or the acquiring and manifestation of situations and things? Try ditching the hate (which only comes back onto you in a negative form) and try appreciation instead. Focus on what you DESIRE, a POSITIVE outcome for all, the good side. According to the scholars, you will then attract the people, places and things that you need to achieve your goals. Could be worth a try.
When you appreciate someone or something -- really appreciate, without any de-preciating at all -- will it come into your life? Let me know what you find out!